Song Release: Think Of Me

Raising awareness about the rights of the unborn is something that is really close to my heart. 
Because of my own life experience of losing a child to abortion when I was 14 years old, I am passionate about preventing abortion.

I am so blessed to have had this amazing song written by the fantastic Katie Pappas, an international songwriter who has written music for Christian movies.

Bruce Retief was responsible for bringing this song to life, and I am so grateful to have worked with them.

The music video was produced by Desmond Denton from Imagen Heart productions, and the video is about the story of a woman in an unplanned pregnancy who chooses life for her baby.  
The video ends where she is presented with another option: abortion, after she has seen what could be if she chooses to let her baby live. 

I pray that this song and this music video will help many girls in unplanned pregnancies to choose life for their babies.

Available on Itunes. 

Think Of Me:

My head on your heartbeat
Your arms wrapped around me
I want to feel everything
Everything
The look that's in your eyes as you hold me for the first time
I want to see everything everything

I don't want to be a what or if 
Or almost was
I want the chance to live and to be loved

One moment could
Chance my fate cos
You could take it all from me and keep it a secret
Or you could hold on to faith that it all is gonna turn out alright just give it
A chance and see it through
I'm at the mercy of you
So think of me before you choose

Taking pictures of my first steps
Being there for all the little moments
I want somebody to cherish me
To think of me
It won't always be easy 
But I'm a chance worth taking worth taking 
Worth taking
Worth taking

One moment could
Change my fate cos
You could take it all from me and keep it a secret
Or you could hold on to faith that it all is gonna turn out alright just give it A chance and see it through
I'm at the mercy of you
So think of me before you choose

40 Days for Life Radio Campaign with CCFM Radio 107.5

Today is officially day 1 of 40 Days for Life 2018 and in case you are not yet aware what 40 Days for Life is... 40 Days for Life is an international prayer movement that started off in a small town in America where a group of Christians who value the sanctity of life got together and decided to commit to praying and fasting for a period of 40 days to try and stop abortions from taking place in their community. Peaceful prayer groups stood outside the abortion clinics and prayed and handed out pro-life literature and raised awareness in the community during that time. The campaign was so successful that it is now active in 741 cities across the world.

It is very important that those taking part in the campaign remain peaceful as this is not an opportunity to aggressively attack those who are in favor of abortion or those entering the clinic who have already made up their minds to go through with their abortion. 
You never know what could happen by greeting someone and starting up a conversation with someone in a crisis pregnancy- so being friendly is of utmost importance!

40 Days for Life is also a time of activism where people are encouraged to step out of their comfort zones and reach out and speak to their communities and Churches about the reality of abortion. 
Pastors and youth pastors are encouraged to raise awareness within the local Church and raise awareness of the locations of the local crisis pregnancy homes and baby safe box locations in the local community so that women in crisis know their options besides abortion. 


This 40 Days for Life, Project Life is having our first 10 Days of Activism that starts next Friday the 23rd of February. We are very excited to have our first awareness campaign and will be doing various methods to raise awareness. 

The last 40 Days for Life campaign 2017 was a huge success and we received so much positive feedback afterwards.  

Baby abandonment is a huge problem in the Western Cape so I contacted CCFM Radio and asked if they would be willing to do a radio campaign over the 40 Days for Life period. They agreed and I made a Youtube video asking people to send their stories in via Whatsapp.
The purpose of the campaign was for people to share positive adoption stories to hopefully prevent baby abandonment and prevent abortion and encourage more people to foster and adopt.

Pro-life is so much more than only defending the unborn- yes that is a major part of it- but pro-life is also being pro-adoption, pro-foster care, protecting children from becoming victims of human trafficking and protecting them from abuse...  

Pro-life means being a voice and speaking for those who cannot speak for themselves. It means standing in the gap and taking some sense of responsibility to protects and help these vulnerable little people.  

Each story carried a powerful message and testimonies came in from kangaroo mothers, baby safe havens, parents who were so blessed by adopting children, women who chose life for their babies when in a crisis pregnancy, and stories of women who had been raped who chose to keep their baby. I was so touched by the stories and I hope and pray that listeners were also. 

Thank you so much to each and every one of you who was brave enough to share your story! I am confident that God has used each one to touch someones life out there. 

World Adoption Day: Get involved and use what is in your hand!

Today is World Adoption Day and you don't need to be adopted or be a parent of an adopted child to celebrate! We can all celebrate this amazing cause because we can all take part in this cause, even if it is just by raising awareness or giving financial help to organizations that support this cause! Afterall, adoption is making the world a better place!

Here are a few ideas to assist the adoption cause:

1. Become a kangaroo parent and take care of a baby for 3-6 months while the process of and paperwork of permanent foster care or adoption is taking place.

2. Become a place of safety by having a child in your care for anywhere between one day and six months.

3. Become a permanent foster care parent and have a child in your care for up to 2 years.

4. Have a baby drop installed at your home or Church to prevent baby abandonment.

5. Give financial donations to organizations assisting the cause.

6. Sponsor a child who is in foster care at foster home.

7. Raise awareness for the cause by blogging, doing talks at schools and Churches.

8. Use whatever skills God has given you to assist! If you are a graphic designer and web developer then contact an organization and offer to do website for them, if you are an accountant then offer to do the organizations books for them, if you can bake then raise funds for the organization of your choice! Use whatever God has placed on your hand.

A friend of mine, who I am so honored to know and so proud of, Louise Coetzee, has done just that; she used what is in her hands by writting a beautiful and inspiring book called The Story Of Princess Zizi, inspired by the journey that her family has been on when adopting their beautiful daughter. What makes this book so special is that so many can relate to it; parents who have adopted, and those who have been adopted. The pages are high quality and although the background is ''colored in," the characters in the book are not, meaning that multiracial families can color the characters in according to their unique family dynamic. The book is available in both English and Afrikaans and costs just R100.00.
Contact Louise Coetzee on 0788124301 or email her on louise.coetzee252@gmail.com.

My visit to The New Life Centre:

I had the great honor of hanging out with Rennie Joubert and getting to hear her story last Saturday. Rennie, 74, a retired accountant, runs the New Life Centre - a Christian centre in Belleville Cape Town that accommodates women in crisis pregnancy - with her husband Wietz Joubert, 78.

Not only is she the house mother of the New Life Centre but also does spiritual counselling with the ladies at the New Life Centre, and has even delivered 3 of the babies who were born at the home!

There have been 445 adoptions, 176 women who chose to be single parents, 1 miscarriage, 3 phantom pregnancies and 4 still-born or babies who died shortly after birth at the centre over the past 20 years.

I asked her some questions about the home:

How many years has the home been running and how many women have been accommodated by the New Life Centre?

The home started 20 years ago, the same year that abortion was legalized, and over the years there have been 629 girls and women pass through the home. The youngest girl was just 11 years old and the oldest 42 years old. The home can accommodate 10 ladies at a time although, if the home is full, we pull out mattresses and the ladies sleep on the floor.

How much does it cost to run this home each month?

Around R25 000 a month for the running of the home, petrol and medical costs.

Do these women receive medical care from the government?

Yes. The women give birth at Karl Bremer Hospital and we have had a very positive experience over the years with this hospital. Dr Deal at Durbanville Medi Clinic does scans for us free of charge. Most of the ladies give birth naturally and there have been 3 births at the home as the ladies did not get to the hospital in time, so I delivered 3 of the babies myself, and one of them was breech!

Where do you receive your money from each month?

It really comes from God! The Ministry of the Belleville Methodist Church give us the house for free each month and some of the members assist with money and groceries each month. We also receive money from The Community Chest.

What "qualifies" as a crisis for girls and women to come to the home and what does a "crisis" pregnancy mean?

Being homeless, being kicked out of the family home or shunned by the family, drug abuse, and girls and women not being emotionally ready to be a mother to the baby that they are carrying.
We do not discriminate and all women of all walks are welcomed. We have had atheist and Muslim ladies come to us as there are no crisis pregnancy centres in the Muslim communities.
Women who return a second time in a second crisis pregnancy are also not turned away but rather welcomed back. Our first priority is to try and unite the girls and women with their families.

Is the home very strict? Are girls and women allowed visitors?

No drugs or drinking is allowed and friends and relatives may visit but preferably not boyfriends. The girls rotate a chore list and take turns to cook and clean.

What is the road that you walk with the ladies if they choose to put the baby up for adoption?

The New Life Centre works with Pro Care so
the process is therefore a "private' adoption and the ladies can choose the family that will adopt their baby.
Once the mother has given birth to the baby she may see the baby and meet the baby if she wants to. The baby is then taken to the "baby room" while she recovers. The mother is encouraged to say good bye to the baby back at the home. The mother has 60 days to change her mind and keep her baby if she chooses to. In this time a Kangaroo mom will collect the baby with a court order. Post adoption agreement letters are decided between the social worker, the adoptive parents and the birth mother.
We try keep the ladies here as long as possible after the birth and we do post birth counselling.

I am under the impression that a private adoption is very expensive and this is often what puts many people off the idea of adopting privately. Is it true that a private adoption can cost up to R100 000?

No not at all! It works on a sliding scale and depends on your income. This allows anyone to adopt and it doesn't mean that because someone is very wealthy that they will necessarily be good parents and it would not be fair to lower income families who wish to adopt. 


Do girls receive any skills training while at the home?

Yes they do - they do a computer course and they learn to cook and clean. There is a lady who comes in to do antenatal classes with the ladies and a midwife who comes to see them at home as well.
A lady comes in to teach them to crochet and another lady comes to do guest house training with them.  We are currently looking for someone to train the ladies customer service skills, so someone who can commit an hour a week to the ladies in the home.

What are your needs and how can people get involved and support the home?

If there are specific skills that anyone feels that they can train the ladies in we would appreciate them volunteering their time. We will appreciate the donation of books, toiletries and clothes and financial donations are welcomed.



So as you can see Rennie and her husband are making a difference in South Africa, one crisis pregnancy at a time and Rennie says she wants to give God all the glory for the strength and grace He gives her.

If you would like to get involved in training the ladies or volunteering please contact Rennie and The New Life Centres bank account details are on their website.

If you know anyone who is in crisis pregnancy please share this information with them and encourage youth pastors and pastors to raise awareness and preach about the different crisis pregnancy centres in your area. 

Link to their website.

www.newlifecentre.co.za